When Mr Right is so so so not The One

I went on a date last night with a guy who on paper is absolutely perfect and he appears to worship the ground I walk on.  You might ask what’s the problem then.

Well for me the biggest obstacle to anything substantial occurring between us is that I don’t fancy him.  I used to.  Kind of many many years ago, but unlike other guys I have dated he really does absolutely nothing for me. There is nothng wrong with him- he is not ugly, he’s about the right height, etc but I feel absolutely nothing when I see him.  Nothing that is apart from the fact he irritates the hell out of me.  Not in a “I want to kill you kind of way” but rather the fact he’s so nice and a bit boring.

One of my best friends has tried to analyse what is wrong with me.  For the purpose of this I will refer to him as Mr A.  Mr A is the kind of guy that would get a lot of attention if he had an advert on match.com or any other dating site/ page.  He has a great job, is solvent and well educated.  My mum and friends like him.  I can’t ever imagine him mistreating me.  However, as my best friend’s boyfriend said on listening to my woes  he imagines I would end up messing about on Mr A.  Would I, probably as I couldn’t make any promises as there are other guys I

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